Sexuality Happens

So if you’ve been following this blog for more than a month or two (or perhaps even then), I’m obsessed with sex toys. I have them for sex, for demonstration, for decoration, you name it. My dream house has a large entrance way with shadow boxes of sex toys made from creative materials (ceramics, glass, metal, wood and stone so… far).

One toy I have always wanted, and yet never bit the bullet and bought was the NJoy Pure Wand…even though I’ve wrote about craving it many a time.

Well, I finally broke down and bought it. I figured that at the very least, it would look pretty on my wall. However, who would have guessed the amazing times it would bring?

I brought it with me to J’s when I went up to NY for a visit. I also brought other new toys…which I’ll write about later (including my first time with a strap-on~I know, what kind of queer kid am I?!?!) J looked at it skeptically, especially when I asked J if it would be ok to top J with it. I’m sure J’s thoughts ran something like “crazy sex crazed maniac wants to stick metal in my cunt say what?” But being the good partner J is, I got the ok.

This is two days blending into one…I think J came 4 or 5 times with the Pure Wand. Here are two of my favorites…the first, and the time J ejaculated, all rolled into one story.

I set the mood…lots of mental topping (that’s the kind I’m best at…not so good at the rest) with a few strikes here, a few slaps there, and naughty nibbles in all of the most delicious places. J was wet and wanted to come, and I hadn’t even started fucking yet.

I took the wand out of its beautiful box, the metal shining against the red satin. Lubing it up, I slowly inserted the small end into J, who jumped at the sensation of a cold, metal dildo being inserted. After giving it a few seconds to warm up to J’s skin temp, I slid it in and out, slowly, because I’d never done this before and didn’t want to hurt J accidentally (on purpose is ok, of course…with consent!). In no time at all, it was clear that we needed the bigger end.

J’s cunt was dripping, so I didn’t need anymore lube, I just used what was in front of me to prepare the bigger end. It stretched the opening a bit going in, but once it pop it, J’s eyes squeezed shut as I gently moved the toy inside.

We had a bit of trial and error as we figured out what felt good, but eventually I was fucking J with the Pure Wand, just the two of us, in a twin bed on the floor of a college dorm room. So random, but so fucking hot.

Soon, J wanted to come. After a bit of teasing, I said yes. I had plans…plans J didn’t know about. J came with some finger stimulation…I took a quick pause, and went back to fucking J with the wand. Hard. God, the noises J makes just send shivers down my spine (the ones J makes when I’m going down? I’ve almost come just from those). After more teasing, taunting and fucking, I brought out the big guns; The Hitachi Magic Wand.

It was like some sort of warped Harry Potter porn with the dueling wands; the Pure Wand against the Magic Wand…excepted instead of working against each other, they worked together to turn J on so much…almost more than I had ever seen. I was using the Pure Wand to fuck J so hard, and the Magic Wand on J’s clit, making J squirm, just the way I wanted it. J asked to come. I said no, and turned off the wand. After a minute or so, I turned it back on…and J was just starting to ask to come when…

J’s roommate came home, and knocked on the door. After assuring him that we’d only be 10 more minutes, he hopped in the shower, and I turned the wand back on, letting J hold it this time. J put it in the perfect place, and then after a few seconds, asked to come. I said no…and J moved the Magic Wand. I moved it back, telling J that if J wanted to come, that Wand better be in the right place, and J better be trying. Again, the Magic Wand brought J to the edge, and J asked to come. Again, I denied the request. J turned the wand off – I turned it right back on. J was so confused, trying to explain to me that if I didn’t move the wand, or turn it off, that J was going to come. I said no, I didn’t say you could, keep it on the right spot, but don’t you dare come.

Magic Wand back in place, J moaning, my arm working the Pure Wand into and out of J’s cunt at a rapid speed, J asked to come again, I said no again, and then…

J’s cunt clenched against the wand. J’s knees tried to close, tried to push me aside. J’s body bucked into me. Noises that make me so hot and horny came out of J. J came.

Not only did J come…J also ejactulated. Liquid, more than just lubrication, flowed onto my hand, drenching my hand, my arm, the toy and the bed. It was so incredibly hot; ejaculation is something I’ve always wanted to do, and never have been able to, so the next best thing was to give my partner that experience.

At first, J was a little concerned and confused…since all J had seen of non male bodied ejaculation was porn movies. We sat together, discussed it, watched the Nina Hartley video of it…and suddenly, J was a lot more excited about it…so excited, that soon, all of J’s roommates…and their partners…well, it seemed as though everyone knew.

It was a wonderful experience, and I’m so glad to have had it, and with such an awesome person to boot.

Now, me next!