Comments on: Spoons (and a poll)

By: Danielle

Danielle — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 07:11:00 +0000

I guess I would have to go with 3, switching!
I like to be the little spoon most of the time, especially with males.. but with females, I think I prefer to be the big spoon… its sorta messing with my mind that I don’t have a concrete answer. But if they tell me what they want, I’ll do that unless I’m really craving being the little spoon, then I’ll beg.

But with three, I love being the middle person/spoon… there’s so much love and I get to feel engulfed in it.

By: Jill

Jill — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 16:21:00 +0000

I am mostly a two, I love feeling like the protector, but I’m an okay three as well sometimes. This proves difficult sometimes because I am a femme and sometimes have to undertake with my more masculine partners the battle for big spoonery. :)

By: Mandy

Mandy — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000

I like both. And I would adore spooning *you*. We’ll have to talk next time I’m on the east coast (wicked grin).

With the Ex, I would go to sleep as the little spoon and wake up as the big spoon with his cock in my hand. He tells me that he once tried to move my hand, to get up and pee, and I clutched more tightly in my sleep and muttered, “mine.”

By: Curvaceous Dee

Curvaceous Dee — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 03:03:00 +0000

I have found that my spoon preference can changed depending on the person I’m spooning with. But, for the most part, I’m right there choosing #1.

Oh, and for three in the bed? You make a sandwich – the one in the middle on their back, and the ones of each side rolled into snuggle under their arm. I find the middle person role is the equivalent of ‘big spoon’.

xx Dee

By: Anne

Anne — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 02:44:00 +0000

#4 for me. I really enjoy both. I think I tend slightly more towards big spoonery….but at heart, I’m a switch.

By: entelle

entelle — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 01:02:00 +0000

I am a big spoon sorta person. I love to feel the curves of the girl press into my stomach and hips. I love to wrap my arm around her chest, belly, lay it on her thigh... touching. I desire to burrow my nose into her hair, or to find the curve of her neck, the soft skin there, and just inhale the scent of her.

Being the big spoon makes me lower my eyelids in satisfacton, and if I could purr, I would do so at that moment.

I am a big spoon girl.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 18:23:00 +0000

mal simon and I spoon all the time. You all go the same way or the middle lies on their back and the others facing in. It can work =P

-J

By: Zoely

Zoely — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 18:16:00 +0000

i am a switch-hittin’ spoon! i like to sometimes be the big spoon, sometimes the little spoon. altho if you look at your flatwear, they’re all the same size. ;-)

By: Wendy

Wendy — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 17:33:00 +0000

This reminds me of a Good Omens quote, about the postman, looking at the bank of a river where he and his wife would picnic and spoon, "and on one memorable trip, to fork"

I tend to be a spoon switch, but it depends on the person. I like to be big spoon when Avah and I cuddle and sleep, and I like to be big spoon with boys after I do mean things to them.

It also depends on sleeping. I like to be little spoon when I sleep on my left side, and big spoon on my right.

You know, I'm thinking I actually like big spoon more now than I used to. Maybe this is tied into the 'waiiit....I'm a top?' revelation I've been having. Hrm.

By: lady brett

lady brett — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 16:32:00 +0000

1…3…6…
that is, i like being the little spoon best…but i’m not that picky…but i can’t sleep as the little spoon – if we’re going to bed i have to be the big spoon

otherwise, yes, i feel the same way about cuddling! i miss my platonic cuddle buddies.