Sexuality Happens

Ken Norcross 2008

Special thanks to Jerry for making this picture possible. He bought me this lovely corset (and stockings; more pictures to come), that looks so incredibly hot on me (in my very own humble opinion of course). More pictures from this shoot to come as well!

Don’t forget to go to Sugarbutch.net and vote for the Sugarbutch Star Contest Winner. Click there, or go up to the banner at the top right of my page. My story is “Shanna: The Diner on the Corner” and even if it wasn’t mine, I’m telling you, it is so way the hottest story of them all (although they are all HAWT!).

As a side note, I wore a short black skirt, black and white stripped thigh highs and black boots to a derby game the other day. I’ve realized that it’s really quite dangerous for me to wear short skirts and boots, because I wind up feeling myself up the whole time. I don’t know what it is, maybe the easy access, but whenever I wear a short skirt and heels, I keep finding my hand meandering up to my ass, feeling the cup of my cheeks, running my fingers along the base, where it slightly folds. I run my hands up and down my thighs…and while this would be fine and dandy in my car or at home (where I do it as well), it’s slightly awkward when I realize that I’m doing it as I walk down the street, or as I am waiting for a drink in a bar.

Today, I found my dream job. And it’s in Denver. I’m apply for it obviously, but there are 3 reasons I think I won’t get it. 1) They want someone to start in June; I can start in July (though if I got it, I could fly in for a week or two of training in June). 2) They want someone with a Master’s. My last class is in May, but my degree isn’t conferred until August. 3) They want someone with 2-3 years of peer education/sex education experience. I feel that I have that (I ran the sexual assault response hotline and did prevention in college for 3 years, plus I feel a lot of my work in writing and outreach at EdenFantasys is sex ed), but the only “legit” and official form of sex education experience I have is the last 6 months working at Planned Parenthood with the LGBTQ youth group. Anyways, I’m not going to say much more, because I’m afraid of getting my hopes up, but it’s really my dream job, it pays well, and has insurance. So please, pretty please, cross your fingers for me! (and if you have Denver connections to any other jobs, still keep me in mind please)

I had my first post-accident chiropractic visit and deep tissue massage. I was so excited for the massage; I was like w00t! Free massage from the insurance company, I’ll just relax and have fun. OH EM GEE did it hurt, especially more on the left (where my seat belt was). I’m talking no fun, physical therapy like massage. All I can say is that I’m glad I decided to go in to see someone, because what if I just let everything sit, and started to go back into the neck pain and death headaches I was getting all fall? Jesus. Yay for Progressive, who has been a truly excellent insurance company in every way.

Also, I am finally done with all papers for class #2 of the semester, so I just have 2 more nights at my internship/practicum/field instruction, and finish the curriculum I’m working on for that, and present my Ally Program at SUNY-Purchase, and then I’m done for the semester (I got an A in History and Ethics of Sexuality…yay!). After that, I have one more class, May 19-23, 9am-5pm, and the homework and papers for that, and then I am D-O-N-E with my Master’s!

It looks like the official moving day for me is going to be June 25th (to leave Philly), which should put me back in CO on the 29th, 30th if anything goes wrong. That means I’ll be in PA for my half-birthday, the Philly Roller Girls Warrior Cup Championship, and the East Coast Derby Extravaganza. I’m trying to get in all the last “Philly” things I want to do or see, as well as another trip or two to NYC, a trip to D.C. (never been there), some more photoshoots, and some last slices of delicious pizzzzzza. 2.5 months, and then Rocky Mountains, here I come!

Ok, I’m off to drink MORE water (she said to chug it), and then place some more ice on my sore back/neck/knees, and then I’m off to visit the sandman. I hope everyone is having a wonderful week, and that you already have your taxes in and done (I know I do!).

Lots o’ love (and thanks again to Jerry!),

Essin’ Em