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Product Research: Blow Job Dildo

For those of us that like sucking cock of the more silicone variety, close your eyes, and imagine. Your partner’s cock is in front of you, you’re on your knees (or however it is you suck cock). Slowly, you take it into your mouth, running your tongue over it, their hands on your shoulders, gently (or more roughly) encouraging you. After a minute or two of warming them up, you then take the tip in your mouth and suck. And they moan. You suck in and out, creating different rhythms, and they moan in time with your ministrations. After some time of this, alternating your techniques, they come, and come hard. And for once, this blow job isn’t completely a mental thing.

There is a well known toy company that makes good quality silicone toys out there who is in the process of creating a sort of “blow job dildo.” Weird concept, I know, but isn’t it something we’ve been waiting for? There is a space at the base, indented, for the wearer’s clit/cock (just to explain, I’m not talking bio cock. I’m talking cock for those people who were assigned female at birth, and identify that as their cock, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation). Then, there is a hole at the tip of this cock, that goes all the way through to the indent. So when you suck on the head, the suction goes through, and provides suction to the clit.

When I first saw this toy at a friend’s house, I thought it was interesting, puzzling, and that there was no way it could work. However, I have it on good authority that it in fact CAN work. And does. And feels amazing (I’m waiting for my prototype to check it out).

However, the current prototype is NOT harness compatible. It can be tucked into your underwear (whatever that may be), and needs to be held in place (by either the sucker or the suckee). They are also working on a version that will be insertable on one end (kind of like the Feeldoe, the Share, or the Nexus), and still have the blow job capabilities as well.

Now, I’m opening this conversation up to you; you dykes, you queers, you transguys, you dommes, you peggers…anyone of you that might be interested in getting a blow job on a non-bio cock. Would you want something like this to be harness compatible? Or insertable? Or just able to tuck it in? Personally, I feel the harness compatible would be best, so you could “suck n’ fuck” (I may trademark that…just kidding), especially as many people I know (trans and cisgender) don’t want things in their cunts, (and others that do, but not while getting head). I see valid arguments for all three, but the company wants to hear what YOU, the people who would be using it, want in this toy.

So what do you think? Would you like to try something like this? What kind of base (reg, insertable, or harness compatible) would you want? What questions, concerns, thoughts, comments, etc, would you have about a product such as this?

All responses will be passed on to the company, so really, be honest. I know *I* can’t wait!

-Essin’ Em

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15 comments

15 Comments so far

  1. Dylan July 8th, 2008 9:50 pm

    Ummm harness compatible. I do not want to hold my dick on. That is not sexy. And suck and fuck would be the total idea of such a toy. I don’t see they could even be considering anything else…

  2. Essin' Em July 8th, 2008 11:17 pm

    I do not want to hold my dick on.

    That provides some quite amusing imagery…

    I’ll pass your (amusing) thoughts on!

  3. Essin' Em July 8th, 2008 11:17 pm

    I do not want to hold my dick on.

    That provides some quite amusing imagery…

    I’ll pass your (amusing) thoughts on!

  4. Jerry July 9th, 2008 3:59 am

    My Wife/Mistress says this DEFINITELY needs to be harness compatable, too much distraction keeping it where it needs to be otherwise.

  5. dana, herself July 9th, 2008 8:20 am

    I don’t see why it -wouldn’t- be harness compatible, honestly.

  6. K July 9th, 2008 9:59 am

    Duh. Of course it needs to be harness compatible. Though, my personal preference is fuck ‘n suck. But that’s neither here nor there…
    Since specific positioning is so important, it seems that holding it in place will be difficult.

  7. Molly Ren July 9th, 2008 1:03 pm

    I hope you sent a link to this to Sinclaire Sexsmith (sugarbutch.net.) She’s the expert!

  8. jesse james July 9th, 2008 6:42 pm

    Please. Maker-of-the-best-idea-in-a-blow-job-cock-ever, minus one major flaw, make this harness-compatible as soon as possible and then tell me exactly where to go to get one. Seriously. Go.

  9. victor/victoria July 11th, 2008 3:22 pm

    harness compatible please!

  10. l-mackenzie-l July 12th, 2008 11:52 pm

    Yes, it must be harness compatible! I agree with dylan 100%. I do not want to hold my dick on either!

    Mac

  11. sexleksaker August 26th, 2008 2:12 pm

    Many thanks !

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  13. Riley December 15th, 2008 2:54 pm

    Ok, this is ALMOST the greatest idea I’ve ever heard of. YES make it harness compatible! Do it! Do it NOW! I know many of us are waiting. This is too much awesome.

  14. ky June 7th, 2009 8:46 pm

    anyone know where to buy one of these? I saw a site selling them last month and now I can’t find the site.

  15. Sex Toys, Adam & Eve December 2nd, 2009 3:05 am

    Harness compatible makes the most sense – besides, who wouldn’t want a ‘suck-and-fuck?’

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