Things that make you go Mmmmmm
If you’re like me, there are somethings that just make you go from 0 to 60 on the horny scale in oh…2.5 seconds.
I was contemplating this the other day as I was driving to a doctor’s appt at the base of the foothills. As I drove, I saw a few strikes of lightening (that I later found out started a grass fire that threatened a friend’s family’s home). And just as that flash of light lit up the sky, it also set my clit aflame. Just seeing the lightening and *POW* — I would have been ready to go with little to no foreplay.
As I learned last weekend, kisses on the back of my neck, shoulders and upper back are the same. I mean, kiss my arm, cheek, front of my neck, chest, etc; lovely, yes, but definitely needs to be part of a process to get me going. Kiss me along my spine and shoulder blades? You could reach around to fuck me without a second thought.
Odd as this is, Spike from Buffy the Vampire Slayer? Yeah. Pretty much just him, but especially the episode Smashed, where at the end, Spike and Buffy have sex that literally knocks a house down.
Ok, I wasn’t going to post it, but here’s a 30 second clip of stills I just found:
Having my hair pulled. Not in an annoying school girl kind of way, but having someone wrap their hand(s) around my braid/ponytail, and pull. Preferably to pull my head back in order to kiss me, but just in general, pulling does it. Unless it’s not consensual, but of course, that’s a whole different ball game anyways.
The feel of a tie in my hand. Weird, yes. Well, to be more specific, holding a tie in my hand that is wrapped around the neck of someone to whom I am attracted. I just want to pull them into me, kiss them, have their hand inside of my, all while holding this lead of theirs in my own hand.
Having my hands pinned above my head; either against a wall, or while prone. It can be in a totally non-sexual sense, like wrestling with friends or what not, but I’m like *boom* “fuck me now please kthnxby.”
Hot tubs. Being in hot tubs makes me want to have sex and stat.
Buttery nipples. No, not all alcohol, just these particular shots. I don’t know if it’s the taste, the creamy texture or what, but I get super duper incredibly horny if I drink even one. Hell, I’m horny just thinking about them!
So what is it that makes you skip the pre-heat cycle and be raring and ready to go without a second thought?
-Essin’ Em
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Well, your writing, for one!
Being drunk and/or high. I’ve only smoked a couple of times, and will likely not do it in the future, but both of those times I was RARING to go. Same way if I’m drunk. I am most definitely a horny drunk.
Being in a public park. Stems back to the days of my ex-boyfriend. Those fond memories ignite some pretty intense fires!
The wrestling scene between Angie and her ex-lover in Tomb Raider 2, where she ends up cuffing him to the bed frame. HOT HOT HOT.
Candles. Maybe I’m a cliche female in this way, but candles just set. The. Mood. Especially dark and rich scents.
Oh, and the movie “But I’m a Cheerleader.” Don’t ask me why. It’s actually kind of cheesy. But it does the trick.
god, two movies make me want to fuck so much:
But I’m a Cheerleader (mmmm, Graham) and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I just need to be with someone after that.
Thanks for sharing!
god, two movies make me want to fuck so much:
But I’m a Cheerleader (mmmm, Graham) and Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. I just need to be with someone after that.
Thanks for sharing!
Wow. Pretty much everyone of those things (except the buttery nipples part) are the same tiggers that my girlfriend have. It was wierd reading pretty much everyone of her turn ons from someone else.
But as a guy it’s fairly easy to turn me on. I’m fairly typical in that aspect, so instead, I thought I might list some of my odd turn-offs, if ya don’t mind.
The Sun is a turn off to me. If I can see sunlight, it makes me not quite as thrilled to have sex. But the odd thing is, light from light bulbs or candles don’t phase me either way.
If I’m on a date with someone, and they say OMG, thats an instant “I don’t want my penis touching that”. I’m fine with oh my god, but when you say the letters out loud, it just bugs me.
Orange. I’m not sure if thats an odd turn off or not, but I don’t know why a simple color can turn me off like that.
The ring of a phone. Cell ring tones don’t do it, but the sound of a house phone turns me off.
if you like Buffy and Spike, you have to check out this video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZeTldwatR3o
sheer black stockings, slutty lingeire, heels, silky feeling clothes….mmm…
Little cooing moans in my ear definitely turn me on instantly. Miss Avarice says “it’s proven, industry standard– two people have done it— are you quoting me? Stop! I hate you!”
Omg I randomly stumbled upon that very Spike and Buffy scene when channel surfing once. It was years before I actually sat down and watched the series, but I was instantly in mad lust with Spike/James Marsters.
I don’t really like it rough in bed, but hot damn.
Hmm yes alot of those things do it for me, especially having my hair pulled, wrapping someone else’s tie around the palm of my hand and having my arms pinned…
I also adore the sight of blood when it is by my own hand, and a fallen tear from a girl I have made to cry is very sexy to me too…
Pegxx
Nice to ‘meet’ you too. I’m surprised I haven’t spoken up here before.
Things that fire me up instantly?
- A tongue in my ear.
- Confident, fast, aggressive drivers, but not dangerous. If I’m riding in a car with someone who can negotiate city traffic without getting flustered or angry, I’m instantly turned on.
- Someone sucking something off their thumb while eating. Has to be the thumb.
As a side note, I’m relatively new to Philly, and haven’t gotten much into the queer scene, yet. Some of your comments about it are a bit discouraging, but otherwise I love your blog.
Have to agree with the hair-pulling–I love having mine pulled and pulling on others. There’s something so raw and sensual about that.
The subtle way a lovers breath changes depending on what’s being done to him or her. Breath is sexy.
Hands wrapped around the neck. Not necessarily in a choking manner, but with just enough pressure applied to indicate that in that moment, you belong to that person. The neck is a huuuge erogenous zone.
Whispering what you’re going to do next into a lover’s ear, or vice versa.
The song “New Year’s Prayer” by Jeff Buckley. Great slow fucking music.
Putting fingers into mouths while being penetrated.
The scene in “The English Patient” where Ralph Fines’ character fucks Kristen Thomas up against the wall while there is a Christmas party going out right outside and the carol “Silent Night” is being sung.
Good lord, I could go on and on! Great post idea!
A few of the same ones you have: kisses on the back of the neck, back, and shoulderblades; Biting me on the back of the neck makes me insane and puts me directly into a submissive frame of mind.
Hairpulling, but only in a particular way: a hand sliding up through my hair at the back of my neck and then curling into a fist. Oh my god, it makes me crazy.
Biting in general. Nails being raked down my back. Red wine. A low growl in my ear makes me shiver.
…I’ll be in my bunk.
Spike is awesome. Made Buffy (even though I was a fan before he turned up.)
Do you watch Torchwood? I haven’t seen any of the episodes, but I hear he crops up (and there’s much smooching between him, the American playing a Brit, and the Brit playing American Captain Jack.)
oh my, having my tie pulled, yes. (i can’t find my black tie…i had to go tieless saturday night, and miss out on that completely…fucking tragic.)
also, my ears. anything really, whispers, nibbles, kisses, bites – particularly a combination of the first and last.
that soft *click* when the lock catches on the pocketknife.
sometimes, just looking at her. there is this one perfectly harmless photo that puts me all ashiver.
a partial list. i really like this post and all the comments =)