Sexuality Happens

Thanks to Monkey from TheyBelongToUs for the super duper fantabulous crab hat – Monkey and Jen and three of their seven children drove up to San Francisco to see me.  We went to Fisherman’s Wharf, and voila – crab hat?

Before I give you a quick run down of some of the amazing things I did while there, let me tell you that my radio show has changed times — it now will play on RadioDentata.com at 9pm EST (6pm PST) on Thursdays, and it will repeat at 10pm EST (7pm PST) and 2:30am EST (11:30pm PST) on Fridays.

I’ve got some AMAZING interviews coming up.  TONIGHT, the 22nd, (replayed tomorrow) is Madison Young, with some interesting and thoughtful things to say about the industry. Next Thursday/Friday (29th/30th) is my interview with Trouble of NoFauxxx, who is giving away a three-month membership. The Thursday/Friday (Feb 5th/6th) after that is Syd Blakovich (with a never before made public CPS tidbit).  Rounding out my sex-positive San Francisco celebs on Feb 12th/13th is Jiz Lee (who gives a Valentine’s Day news exclusive, so make sure you tune in!)

You can either head over to RadioDentata to listen, or just click below (or on my sidebar) for my own personal player.

Other amazing things I did on this trip:

*Shot for NoFauxxx (set goes up around Valentine’s Day)

*Shot for Crash Pad Series (I’ll let you know when that goes up)

*Took a tour of the Kink.com Armory

*Met and interviewed the above people, as well as met Fivestar, Mollena, and the owner of Inverted Eye

*Visited Berkley with a friend from college

*Purchased sexy stripper clothes with and for my friend (who was kind enough to let me stay with her)

*Met and chatted with the head of education for Good Vibrations and had a good talk

*Visited and participated at the Lusty Lady

*Brown bagged it in Dolores Park

*Drank at the Lexington Club (three times!)

*Had really amazing and satisfying sex with lovely bruises :)

*Learned how to pick up dollar bills off of people’s foreheads with my breasts

*Figured out that I can fit the NJoy Eleven (either end) in my mouth

*Listened to Obama’s inaugural speech

*Discovered that I like being tickled occasionally

*Ate lots and lots of delicious vegetarian food

*Got lost multiple times

*Held two pythons

*Went to the beach (in January!)

*Met a roller girl from the local derby league

*Taught a well-attended and interesting class on polyamory and relationship mapping at Femina Potens Gallery

*Enjoyed Taqueria Cancun not once, not twice, but three times!

I am home. I am exhausted. I am sore…both good sore (tickling, attempting pole moves, phenomenal sex), and bad sore (knees, hips, shoulders, neck). I am kaput for the next few days. However, I feel like I fit in absolutely everything that I possibly could into this trip, met so many people I had hoped to me, and some that I didn’t even know about and was lucky enough to meet.  I felt as though I was around my type of community…people who discuss sex, sexuality, gender, race, privilege, etc.  I have some new (and/or reinstated) goals from this trip:

*Move to the SF area (probably an outskirt)

*Get a job in sexuality/sex education, because I am so fulfilled doing this

*Queer. Gang. Bang. I want.  Half birthday present?

*Try anal sex. More so than what I have.

*Find more people to play with.

*Go back to visit my friends, especially those I didn’t get to see

*Figure out how to go to the AASECT conference in May to change things from the inside

Thank you so much to anyone and everyone who contributed to my amazing time in California. Best trip I’ve ever taken, hands down (and that beats out two years of all-expense paid trips to Dinah Shore, week long trips to Sweden, and more).

-Essin’ Em