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	<title>Comments on: Farewell to the Red HNT</title>
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		<title>By: Zeitgeist_the_Clown</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5464</link>
		<dc:creator>Zeitgeist_the_Clown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Apr 2009 21:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The content filters are down on the library&#039;s computers (yay!) so I&#039;ve been spending the day reading sex blogs.  (And I absolutely love yours, by the way.) 

Anyway, it occurs to me that firetruck red IS your natural hair color.  It&#039;s just not your biological hair color.  That&#039;s what happens when I read your post after spending most of yesterday playing word definition games in my head.  

ZtC</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The content filters are down on the library&#8217;s computers (yay!) so I&#8217;ve been spending the day reading sex blogs.  (And I absolutely love yours, by the way.) </p>
<p>Anyway, it occurs to me that firetruck red IS your natural hair color.  It&#8217;s just not your biological hair color.  That&#8217;s what happens when I read your post after spending most of yesterday playing word definition games in my head.  </p>
<p>ZtC</p>
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		<title>By: Sleeping Dreamer</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5273</link>
		<dc:creator>Sleeping Dreamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Mar 2009 04:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had my sleeve designed and ready to go for over a year now. Every time I pick up the phone to schedule my appointment that thought pops in my head, &quot;kiss a professional career with dress codes goodbye&quot;. When I worked in bridal sales I had to take out my monroe- this was a piercing that I was absolutely in love with, it felt like me, it was beyond personal expression... it was special. I was absolutely miserable that I had to suppress the best parts of myself in order to fit in at a business. 

I loved your hair as red too, as everyone else here has said- and I&#039;m sorry you&#039;ve had to change pieces of yourself in order to find employment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had my sleeve designed and ready to go for over a year now. Every time I pick up the phone to schedule my appointment that thought pops in my head, &#8220;kiss a professional career with dress codes goodbye&#8221;. When I worked in bridal sales I had to take out my monroe- this was a piercing that I was absolutely in love with, it felt like me, it was beyond personal expression&#8230; it was special. I was absolutely miserable that I had to suppress the best parts of myself in order to fit in at a business. </p>
<p>I loved your hair as red too, as everyone else here has said- and I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;ve had to change pieces of yourself in order to find employment.</p>
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		<title>By: Thursday's Child</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5266</link>
		<dc:creator>Thursday's Child</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 19:06:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do like you with red hair - there&#039;s something incredibly vivacious about the bright red.

Here&#039;s the hoping you&#039;ll find a job, and one that lets you be who you are!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do like you with red hair &#8211; there&#8217;s something incredibly vivacious about the bright red.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the hoping you&#8217;ll find a job, and one that lets you be who you are!</p>
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		<title>By: Mirri</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5262</link>
		<dc:creator>Mirri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 16:14:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As someone who got strange looks (not actual comments, because that would be discrimination) for her hair colours, I know where you&#039;re coming from. I live in rural Wales, and strangely all the nice comments are from people over 40 and any nasty ones from people in their twenties...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone who got strange looks (not actual comments, because that would be discrimination) for her hair colours, I know where you&#8217;re coming from. I live in rural Wales, and strangely all the nice comments are from people over 40 and any nasty ones from people in their twenties&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: kyle</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5260</link>
		<dc:creator>kyle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 15:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You do look awesome in red and that bit of bright green foliage makes such a nice contrast in the picture.  As to your current muted state, your energy is still very vibrant.  I really hope something job wise comes along for you soon.

HHNT</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You do look awesome in red and that bit of bright green foliage makes such a nice contrast in the picture.  As to your current muted state, your energy is still very vibrant.  I really hope something job wise comes along for you soon.</p>
<p>HHNT</p>
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		<title>By: Celeste</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5254</link>
		<dc:creator>Celeste</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 10:39:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the red too.  I&#039;m much the same... but my colour is purple ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the red too.  I&#8217;m much the same&#8230; but my colour is purple ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Amorous Rocker</title>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2009/03/farewell-to-the-red-hnt/comment-page-1/#comment-5252</link>
		<dc:creator>Amorous Rocker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 07:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have that attitude that you mention. I&#039;ve had to compromise in appearance before for a job. My current one, I had to lose the eyebrow piercing or not have a job. I kept looking and looking but I needed the money and nothing else came along. So I don&#039;t wear any piercings while at work. I feel naked and strange without it. I feel like a part of me, a deep part of me, is missing. Which to some is silly but to me it makes sense. Sometimes, you have to do what you need to do to get along, even when it hurts you to do so. I do feel bad for you for having to change your hair. I understand how you&#039;re feeling about that. *hugs*

Good luck with finding a job too. I hope something comes along soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have that attitude that you mention. I&#8217;ve had to compromise in appearance before for a job. My current one, I had to lose the eyebrow piercing or not have a job. I kept looking and looking but I needed the money and nothing else came along. So I don&#8217;t wear any piercings while at work. I feel naked and strange without it. I feel like a part of me, a deep part of me, is missing. Which to some is silly but to me it makes sense. Sometimes, you have to do what you need to do to get along, even when it hurts you to do so. I do feel bad for you for having to change your hair. I understand how you&#8217;re feeling about that. *hugs*</p>
<p>Good luck with finding a job too. I hope something comes along soon.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Elliott ~alapoet~</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Elliott ~alapoet~</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the photo... and the look in your eyes.

Happy Half Nekkid Thursday!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the photo&#8230; and the look in your eyes.</p>
<p>Happy Half Nekkid Thursday!</p>
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		<title>By: Ely Gubbins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ely Gubbins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 06:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very seductive... Lovely...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very seductive&#8230; Lovely&#8230;</p>
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