Fucking Blood
Mollena’s HNT post last week started me thinking about menstruation, and fucking people while they’re bleeding. I started by writing her a comment, but clearly, I got very involved. It was about blood, and fucking, and fucking while there is blood involved.
I have an odd relationship w/ menstrual blood. I personally hate *my* period, and love that with CBC, I can have it once a year…and have no problem being fucked during that time. It isn’t the bleeding that bothers me. It’s the pain, and inability to walk for a day or two, and the pain, and the nausea, and the…anyways. I have it once a year or so, ergo, I rarely have to think about the role that bloody plays in my sex life.
J had some body dysphoria regarding bleeding that I hadn’t been aware of, and the one time we tried having sex during J’s bleeding, J flipped out and I spent the rest of the afternoon and evening comforting. I felt awful. I know, not entirely my fault, but I’m Jewish – I feel guilt like a professional
F was only ok with it the last day or so of hers. We were together long enough that I started to remember her cycle, and to figure out the few days she wasn’t ok with it. Usually by the time I got the “all clear” from her, I might get a little hint of blood on my hands or the glove, but barely enough to even notice.
A week or two ago, things changed. The other day, I needed sex so god damn fucking badly. I cannot explain this. I mean, I was humping bike racks in downtown Boulder. Masturbating wasn’t cutting it. I tried to booty call text Q. “This isn’t really a good week” she said. At first, I thought she was busy, and was confused…wasn’t she done with stuff for spring break? “Ok.” I wrote back, frustrated. How were we supposed to be using each other for sex if there wasn’t any sex taking place?
Later that night, it hit me. It was that time of the month for her, must be. I texted her “you know I’m totally ok with fucking people who are bleeding, right?” (oh, I was so that suave. No, really.). She wrote back puzzledly. This went on for a bit, and later we were talking about something else, and I brought it up on the phone. I explained that I had no issues with it, and had a throe, towels, and a shower, so it’d be fine. We then made arrangements for fucking a few days down the road.
I didn’t bring up the fact that I have a fantasy about fisting someone on their period, and then smearing their blood all over them in sort of a fun, fucking artistic statement. And on me too. I think it would be interesting and fun, and probably creep out 99% of the people I’ve had sex with. So welcome to secret sharing 101 – I’ve never told anyone that before.
Long story short, we fucked. And it was bloody and messy. That’s what the Fascinator Throe is for, right? A red towel to clean up afterward, and voila.
Actually, it was very interesting. Normally, Q is a two finger kind of cunt. Well, her cunt is, I don’t mean to call her one. Anyways, as I started to fuck her, I slid into her, and she opened for me. First for three fingers, then for four. I was shocked, but it felt amazing as I felt her open up, as I found more and more of myself inside her. And I even had a first (I don’t have that many firsts anymore); I felt her cervix. Not only that, but she liked it (I’ve had my cervix bumped a few times and did NOT like it. In fact, I hated it. Resulted in pain and cramping). She liked it so much that I continued to play with it…I massage her cervix as I fingered her and fucked her. Now I’m wondering if she likes that when she’s not bleeding.
Then I washed the Throe, boiled the toys, popped the condom off the Hitachi, and called it a day.
So voila. My thoughts on fucking during bleeding. As long as both parties are ok with it, I have absolutely no problem with it, and even think it’s fun. Plus, for many people, orgasming during that time can reliving cramping. As if you really needed another reason to fuck!
-Essin’ Em
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I’m all for fucking when bleeding when the mood hits! Though lately, I’ve been rather crabby during my period, but I think that’s probably a side effect of a)my recent lack of sex (SINCE SEPTEMBER!) and b)my recent weight loss.
But yeah, I love bloody messy sex. I prefer boys who like it. As I said on twitter, if a boy can’t handle a little period sex, he’s probably too squeamish for my ‘when I was a funeral director’ and ‘when I watched autopsies in person and OMG I got to touch a brain and it was awesome’ stories. And who needs that?
Yikes, yah, not so much for me. I’ve done it before, had sex while on my period, but I was even DRIER than normal, and to be honest it just didn’t feel very good. Not to mention the fact that it made me weirdly dry the rest of that week which was distinctly uncomfortable.
The only period-related sexing of any sort that’s ever sounded appealing to me was from one of the Vampire Chronicles when Lestat ate a woman out when she was on her period. That was hot.
But under non-vampire related circumstances my cunt likes some time to herself to just meditate and chill that week.
sounds like a lot of fun. I’m a guy who has no issues with fucking when a woman is bleeding. A lot of guys I know really freak out about it, but I just don’t grok that. I’ve also run across several women who say that having intercourse when they are bleeding reduces the amount and intensity of any cramps they might be experiencing. Glad you managed to satisfy your needs.
Jerry
I LOVE being fucked while I’m bleeding! It feels different, but in a good way, and if my flow is heavy, I can accommodate something much bigger without as much foreplay. And it temporarily alleviates my cramps. I’ve convinced my lover to paint my belly & breasts with my blood after fucking me. It was REALLY hot!
I can experience a little dryness late in my period, but that’s what lube is for. Late period sex feels more like no period sex to me.
I bet you’ve managed to inspire Q to look forward to more menstrual sex in the future. Good for you! I used to worry that my partner(s) would be grossed out, but once I tried it, I loved it so much that I’ve encouraged my partners to try it with me (as long as they know in advance).
My ex-boyfriend was the first (and so far only) guy I’ve had sex with during my period. I don’t understand why a lot of people get all weird about it. Yeah, it can be messy, but then you just wash up, don’t people wash up after non-period sex too?
I didn’t find that I enjoyed it any more or less than non-period sex, but I know I wanted it pretty bad. Usually when I have my period it’s when I am wanting sex the most, maybe because I think that I can’t have it? Who knows!
If I’m with someone that I haven’t been sleeping with a long time or someone who is just a casual lay, there is no sex on the period. I’m usually pretty nice about supplying blow jobs when I’m bleeding, but that’s more because I really like giving head and not because i feel obligated to get the guy off in some way.
If it’s a boy/girlfriend, I will totally have sex on my period, but not until the 3rd or 4th day. My first day I generally feel crampy and gross and not in the mood, and the second day is too heavy for me to be comfortable with sexy time. I do get REALLY horny during my period so I think that waiting until it was completely over would suck. Also, and I’ve heard that this is not the case with many women, when I get aroused I stop bleeding and just lubricate. In all the years I have been having sex on my period, I’ve NEVER had a guy find any blood on himself or on the sheets afterwards. I guess that makes me lucky.
Anyway, long story short: YAY for period sex.
YA… I’ve totally got my “red wings” haha. I don’t mind if my partner isn’t down for it.. I suppose I understand- to each their own. Honestly, when it comes down to it.. any guy I know who is horny enough and I’m forward enough will do it. haha. Saved a few sex vacations with boys in other states who had the misfortune of planning our trip on a “bad week” that way.
@Britni
I’ve had very similar experiences with my flow. It also stops when you’re submerged in water.. so that time of the month is the perfect time for some nice sexy bathtub sex :) Don’t believe me.. go sit in the tub yourself next time you’re on the rag..it’ll stop flowing.
Babe, this made me so happy to read.
Thank you for writing this for us.
Love
Mo
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