Q and A with Essin’ Em
Photo Credit: Half Moon Photography
Every once in a while, I like to remind everyone that I’d totally open for questions and all that jazz. I’m a very open person, and would love to answer 99% of the questions I’m asked (I reserve that 1% for rude questions, and the few things that I may not want to talk about).
SO! Now is your time, although I’ll do this any time you have a question. Please either post it as a comment, or send it to me at EssinEm at gmail dot com. Let me know what name (and/or URL) I can post when I post my answer(s).
Questions can be about me, about sex/uality, about dis/ability, about kink, about blogging, about pretty much anything, and I’ll do my best to answer.
Ready…setty…go!
-Essin’ Em
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Hmm exciting! Questions, questions, Questions!
1) When you first starting writing, did you prefer to be anonymus or were you out there from day one?
2)Do you think you and Q will go to another play party?
3) Do random companies send you products to test out or do you have a contract with a couple of them to work as a consultant?
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You post pretty frequently, and always about something funny or touching or emotional – it’s always deeply human. How do you not lose your sense of what merits a post, what would be a meaningful thing to talk about? I feel like after a while with my blog I’ve lost that joie de posting and don’t do it unless something really shocking happens, which leaves loooong periods between updates.
Explain your perspective on the fundamental ideals behind BDSM besides the basic “safe, sane & consensual” creed.
on another note: can I use you as a model when you’re down here?
Uhm, the third absolutely burning questions I have are: how did you end up hooking up with J? I think he was the FTM dude. I’m dating an FTM, and he is a handful. He’s transitioning right now, so it’s quite an experience.
Second, have you ever been heartbroken and if so, what did you do to get over that person? I got my feelings toyed with a couple of months ago by I girl I really like, and it’s taking its toll on me, even though I have seen someone else since then. Any advice????
Third, what was the progression to becoming an agnostic, kinky, sexpert/Jew? I’m curious about your beliefs and where you think life is taking you. (That’s a weird question, I know).
Anyway, thanks for opening up the board for questions for the inquring minds out there like me, wondering what makes you tick.
How many tattoos do you have, and what are they of? Is there any special significance?
What did you want to be when you grew up?
Do you have any tips for fellow practitioners of polyamory?
I may be asking a stupid question but I honestly don’t get the difference between queer and gay. In my eyes you’re either straight, gay, or bi. Isn’t labeling within each category simply semantics?
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