Comments on: Fisting Negativity http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/ Tue, 02 Aug 2011 03:39:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: John http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-9769 John Mon, 10 Aug 2009 22:19:42 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2452#comment-9769 My girlfriend is interested in trying fisting, I love her and I'll do anything for her. Making her happy is my favorite thing to do. That said, I'm totally insecure about it. I'm not worried that she won't be tight enough to satisfy me afterwards, I know enough about female anatomy to understand vaginal elasticity, but I am extremely worried that she won't be satisfied with me afterwards. Come on experienced fisters, give my penis some good news My girlfriend is interested in trying fisting, I love her and I’ll do anything for her. Making her happy is my favorite thing to do. That said, I’m totally insecure about it. I’m not worried that she won’t be tight enough to satisfy me afterwards, I know enough about female anatomy to understand vaginal elasticity, but I am extremely worried that she won’t be satisfied with me afterwards.

Come on experienced fisters, give my penis some good news

]]> By: Champagne and Benzedrine http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-9472 Champagne and Benzedrine Mon, 27 Jul 2009 13:25:47 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2452#comment-9472 I find it really interesting that fisting is taboo is porn - apparently it's illegal. I know that the magazine I review for insists that we 'alert' them if a DVD contains something illegal, and fisting is one of the examples they give. I find it really interesting that fisting is taboo is porn – apparently it’s illegal. I know that the magazine I review for insists that we ‘alert’ them if a DVD contains something illegal, and fisting is one of the examples they give.

]]> By: Backseat Boohoo http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-9425 Backseat Boohoo Sun, 26 Jul 2009 22:15:54 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2452#comment-9425 I am always amazed by how much people underestimate the human body's elasticity. It's like those teenage boys who "har-har" about a girl who's had sex and say she's "beat" and "her pussy's loose," when in fact, if she'd been having sex regularly, her pussy would be TIGHTER. Really, fisting is no different. Yes, it expands your vaginal canal a little more, but it also works the muscles, and your vaginal walls WILL touch when you're not aroused. Having something big up there does not "stretch" your vagina out like an old sweater. Even pregnant women can get their pre-baby tightness back with regular kegel exercises and sexual activity, and if a lady can recover from a baby, she can recover from a fist. Also, the whole, "If you like dildos, you aren't a lesbian" thing REALLY annoys me, too. It's a lump of silicone, people, not a person. A very sexy lump of silicone, but regardless... I am always amazed by how much people underestimate the human body’s elasticity. It’s like those teenage boys who “har-har” about a girl who’s had sex and say she’s “beat” and “her pussy’s loose,” when in fact, if she’d been having sex regularly, her pussy would be TIGHTER. Really, fisting is no different. Yes, it expands your vaginal canal a little more, but it also works the muscles, and your vaginal walls WILL touch when you’re not aroused. Having something big up there does not “stretch” your vagina out like an old sweater. Even pregnant women can get their pre-baby tightness back with regular kegel exercises and sexual activity, and if a lady can recover from a baby, she can recover from a fist.

Also, the whole, “If you like dildos, you aren’t a lesbian” thing REALLY annoys me, too. It’s a lump of silicone, people, not a person. A very sexy lump of silicone, but regardless…

]]> By: Rodger http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-9410 Rodger Sun, 26 Jul 2009 15:51:59 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2452#comment-9410 I feel like whenever people try to lightly or humorously demean something or create fear around it they always go with the "You're SOOO exaggerating!" response and you know what? If YOU exaggerated it and read it like that, that means others will too, and that means that they've not only succeeded at ticking you off but that they've written a bad post that isn't a clear communication of their meaning. It's like I always say, "If you don't say what you mean, how can I know what you mean to say?" I feel like whenever people try to lightly or humorously demean something or create fear around it they always go with the “You’re SOOO exaggerating!” response and you know what? If YOU exaggerated it and read it like that, that means others will too, and that means that they’ve not only succeeded at ticking you off but that they’ve written a bad post that isn’t a clear communication of their meaning. It’s like I always say, “If you don’t say what you mean, how can I know what you mean to say?”

]]> By: Alex http://essin-em.com/2009/07/fisting-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-9392 Alex Sun, 26 Jul 2009 08:16:50 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2452#comment-9392 This a debate about semantics, not about our views. You seem intent on imposing your interpretation of Suze's words onto the post despite my clarifications. By all means debate, debate is healthy. But there is no debate, there is no fear-mongering and I'm sure that you will be able in a couple of lines to allay the "fears" of everyone considering fisting. So the "debate" will be short. This a debate about semantics, not about our views. You seem intent on imposing your interpretation of Suze’s words onto the post despite my clarifications.

By all means debate, debate is healthy. But there is no debate, there is no fear-mongering and I’m sure that you will be able in a couple of lines to allay the “fears” of everyone considering fisting. So the “debate” will be short.

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