Comments on: Pain Problems http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/ Sat, 14 Jan 2012 10:32:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Kim Crystal http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-10457 Kim Crystal Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:54:17 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2941#comment-10457 Sorry to hear about your problems. All I can do is with you both good health and patience. Sorry to hear about your problems. All I can do is with you both good health and patience.

]]> By: Ashley http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-10456 Ashley Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:56:04 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2941#comment-10456 As the former partner (and who knows, maybe future partner - if she decides to come back to me) of a woman who suffered from chronic health issues and pain, I can tell you to please believe Q when she tells you she doesn't mind. I speak from the other side and I know that for every thought I had that consisted of "what a PITA this condition is" there were about a million that went "wow, I'm so lucky/blessed/fortunate to have this amazing woman in my life". Was I frustrated occasionally by her limits? I'd be a liar if I said no, but I chose HER. And with her came everything - good and bad. She made a similar choice and in the end, isn't that all that matters? That we chose each other. I hope for everyone's sake that you can find a way to manage and deal with what's being thrown at you right now. But please, revel in the love and support you are receiving from Q and don't doubt her sincerity. It hurts when our partners don't believe us - even if what we're telling them is hard for them to hear. Unconditional love and support, that isn't often found (or ditched), so if it's there, hang onto it. I'd give almost anything to have my woman back; even knowing what I face walking by her side, her light, her spirit, her soul, THAT's what I crave and need in my life. Everything else is just to be dealt with. :goodvibes: for feeling much better, very quickly. As the former partner (and who knows, maybe future partner – if she decides to come back to me) of a woman who suffered from chronic health issues and pain, I can tell you to please believe Q when she tells you she doesn’t mind. I speak from the other side and I know that for every thought I had that consisted of “what a PITA this condition is” there were about a million that went “wow, I’m so lucky/blessed/fortunate to have this amazing woman in my life”. Was I frustrated occasionally by her limits? I’d be a liar if I said no, but I chose HER. And with her came everything – good and bad. She made a similar choice and in the end, isn’t that all that matters? That we chose each other.

I hope for everyone’s sake that you can find a way to manage and deal with what’s being thrown at you right now. But please, revel in the love and support you are receiving from Q and don’t doubt her sincerity. It hurts when our partners don’t believe us – even if what we’re telling them is hard for them to hear. Unconditional love and support, that isn’t often found (or ditched), so if it’s there, hang onto it.

I’d give almost anything to have my woman back; even knowing what I face walking by her side, her light, her spirit, her soul, THAT’s what I crave and need in my life. Everything else is just to be dealt with.

:goodvibes: for feeling much better, very quickly.

]]> By: Chris http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-10453 Chris Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:28:30 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2941#comment-10453 Oh honey, I'm so sorry. I hope it gets better, that you can find a way to cope and get your life settled around it. Oh honey, I’m so sorry. I hope it gets better, that you can find a way to cope and get your life settled around it.

]]> By: literalman http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-10452 literalman Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:33:55 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2941#comment-10452 I'd like a list of all 50 states, and for each state, what percentage of girls had intercourse before they were old enough to buy a vibrator in that state. How much do you think of your time would it take, and how much would be a reasonable fee for it be? I’d like a list of all 50 states, and for each state, what percentage of girls had intercourse before they were old enough to buy a vibrator in that state. How much do you think of your time would it take, and how much would be a reasonable fee for it be?

]]> By: Jerry http://essin-em.com/2009/11/pain-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-10451 Jerry Tue, 17 Nov 2009 10:30:06 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=2941#comment-10451 oh gee, I'm sorry you are having so many physical challenges. I wish there was something folks could do to help you out better. I'm sure you've checked for local assistance with docs/meds for those who can't afford it and I know how messy it is to make that work even when you do. May he Goddess of pain relief and relaxation bestow kindness upon you. Gentle hugs, Jerry oh gee, I’m sorry you are having so many physical challenges. I wish there was something folks could do to help you out better. I’m sure you’ve checked for local assistance with docs/meds for those who can’t afford it and I know how messy it is to make that work even when you do. May he Goddess of pain relief and relaxation bestow kindness upon you.

Gentle hugs,
Jerry

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