Sexuality Happens

As of today, I am officially 24.

What am I doing today? Nada.  Q is working all day, and has a special work event tonight, so it’s just me and the kitties. I’m planning on sleeping in, masturbating a bit, maybe renting a movie, or going to get a cupcake or something. Same old, same old. Birthdays never really turn out well for me. I’ve been robbed, I’ve been in a car accident, I’ve gotten a kidney infection, I’ve fallen down a flight of stairs, I’ve had my little kitty die.  Birthdays generally don’t bode well for me.

Despite this outlook, it IS my birthday, so I’m going to at least write about it.

So much has happened in the last year.  

I lost my little girl kitty Athena, breaking my heart.

I met Q, the love of my life.

F broke up with me, which in hindsight, was a good thing.

I shot porn/naked pictures for CrashPadSeries.com, GoodDykePorn.com, NoFauxxx and VegPorn.com.

I attended Sex 2.0 in Washington, DC.

I met some of my favorite sex(uality) people.

I’ve been unemployed. 

I worked for Western Union in a contract position. 

I visited my best friend in Seattle.

I’m back to being unemployed.

I hosted Wick’d Dyke Night and Spanktrum (queer play parties) in Denver.

I found my kink family in Denver; the lovely Ms. Angell, Evey, Nyx, Domitor, Faith, Noan, Lynx and others. I found a home at the RACK room and the Denver Enclave.

I adopted a new kitty; Kali.

I moved to Arizona with Q.

I’m desperately missing my BFF in Denver, and my other friends there.

I’ve gained Q’s cat, Jasper.

I’ve celebrated my first Thanksgiving with Q.

I have my first “holiday shrubbery.”

I am interested, if not a little scared (and also excited!), to see what happens in the next year.

If you’re crafty, and wanting to make me a gift, I do love me some home made presents.  Email me or comment, and I’ll send my address. If you’re wanting to buy me a gift, you can see here what I’m craving.  And if you don’t have the ability to do any, I’d just love a nice comment…always can cheer me up!

Here’s a picture from last year’s birthday party:

The theme was Super Heros, Fairy Tales, Urban Legends and Tall Tales.

I was the White Rabbit from Alice in Wonderland…and thought this Captain Morgan hat looked like a giant uterus.  But then again, that’s just me. And I’m a pervert.

-Essin’ Em