Q and A with Essin’ Em
I broke down and got a Formspring. Basically, you use it to ask me questions. Now, I think it’s kind of silly, because you’re always welcome to ask me questions in my comments, or shoot me an email at essinem at gmail dot com. Or tweet at me. Or facebook me. Etc. I don’t really need something else. However, I now have one. So please ask me lots of questions. I’ll post some of my favorite questions/answers on here as well. Here are two to get you started!
-Essin’ Em
Could you give up sex if you had to?
I think it depends in what context, and for how long.
Could I give it up for a week? Yes. Definitely have done that with crazy schedules.
A month or two? Have done that post surgery while lying on my mother’s couch for 6 weeks. Masturbation would have been difficult, and probably painful.
I was on meds for a while that fucked up my sex drive, and really wasn’t interested in sex for almost 3 or 4 months.
However, if, for example, Q decided that she had no interested in having sex ever again, would I give it up? No. I would stay with her as my primary, because I love her more than I can express, and that love is definitely more than the fact that she fucks like a saber tooth tiger. However, we’d have to renegotiate our current non-monogamous agreement (that I can fuck Johnny Depp, Jiz Lee and/or anyone for porn, and can play kink wise with others) to expand and included tertiary sexual partners. I can’t fathom giving up sex for the rest of my life.
If a magic genie offered to grant you three, and only three wishes, what would they be? And one of your wishes can’t be to have more wishes ;) by mauikink
Hmmmm.
Wish 1: I would like unlimited sums of money. Cliche? Oh yes. However, then I could pursue work that interested me (instead of what paid properly), I could get knee replacements, I could pay of my debt and Q’s debt and my friends’ debt. I could buy the house I wanted. I could support people who wanted me to donate to AIDS Walks and Cancer Walks, and to organizations who I support. I could also get an Njoy Eleven. In getting this wish, I could in fact most of my own wishes.
Wish 2: I would like there to be equality. Not only here in the US, but period. I could not buy this with wish 1, ergo, it would be wish 2. People of all sexes, genders, ability levels, races, ages, orientations, classes, etc, would be afforded the same rights.
Wish 3: I would like to have perfect health for me and my loved ones. Yes, I could pay for medical treatments with wish 1. However, I can’t fix everything. I’d rather no one have cavities, and I would like to always be able walk up stairs, and get out of bed, and not live my life around my pain.
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