Comments on: Nothing is perfect, which is why there is communication http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/ Sat, 14 Jan 2012 10:32:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Rain http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10761 Rain Mon, 11 Jan 2010 04:37:47 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10761 Absolutely. The little things can be simple if you can let them out. It's when they sit and become too big that things get so much harder. Setting aside just plain talking time is really excellent. Thank you for sharing this. It's always nice to see that even awesome couples and high-functioning people have difficulties, and how they deal with them. Absolutely. The little things can be simple if you can let them out. It’s when they sit and become too big that things get so much harder. Setting aside just plain talking time is really excellent. Thank you for sharing this. It’s always nice to see that even awesome couples and high-functioning people have difficulties, and how they deal with them.

]]> By: Joanna Cake http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10739 Joanna Cake Wed, 06 Jan 2010 17:25:16 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10739 Everyone wants there to be some magic potion that allows you to have the perfect relationship for no effort. And it just doesnt happen that way. As was said earlier, communication is everything. Having come out of three decades living with a man who could not or would not let any emotion surface, being with Ruf is like a rollercoaster. But it's so much better to air things that upset us when we're wrapped in each other's arms. In that type of loving environment, you can say pretty much anything, so long as you give the reasoning behind it and keep reassuring the other person how much you love them but that this upsets you. It's taken me a long time to realise that both parties have to work at the perfect relationship. Everyone wants there to be some magic potion that allows you to have the perfect relationship for no effort. And it just doesnt happen that way. As was said earlier, communication is everything.

Having come out of three decades living with a man who could not or would not let any emotion surface, being with Ruf is like a rollercoaster. But it’s so much better to air things that upset us when we’re wrapped in each other’s arms. In that type of loving environment, you can say pretty much anything, so long as you give the reasoning behind it and keep reassuring the other person how much you love them but that this upsets you.

It’s taken me a long time to realise that both parties have to work at the perfect relationship.

]]> By: Adriana http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10736 Adriana Wed, 06 Jan 2010 13:05:43 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10736 I wish I had read this years ago.. I wish I had learned it then I wish I had read this years ago.. I wish I had learned it then

]]> By: lady brett http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10730 lady brett Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:13:32 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10730 bravo! sounds pretty perfect to me, even so =) bravo!

sounds pretty perfect to me, even so =)

]]> By: Truly http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10724 Truly Mon, 04 Jan 2010 19:15:04 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10724 "Turn off the TV. Shut the computer. Put your cell phone on stun. Talk to your partner. Not just about their day, but about them." Yes, yes, yes! “Turn off the TV. Shut the computer. Put your cell phone on stun. Talk to your partner. Not just about their day, but about them.”
Yes, yes, yes!

]]> By: Sarahbear http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10721 Sarahbear Mon, 04 Jan 2010 18:33:10 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10721 This is so very true. We are so quick to get caught up in our daily lives and then we veg out in front of the television to wind down at night, instead of spending some much needed time focusing on our relationships. This post is an excellent reminder of that. I loved it. This is so very true. We are so quick to get caught up in our daily lives and then we veg out in front of the television to wind down at night, instead of spending some much needed time focusing on our relationships. This post is an excellent reminder of that. I loved it.

]]> By: Aida http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10720 Aida Mon, 04 Jan 2010 15:54:14 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10720 THIS. THIS.

]]> By: Chris http://essin-em.com/2010/01/nothing-is-perfect-which-is-why-there-is-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-10719 Chris Mon, 04 Jan 2010 13:51:15 +0000 http://essin-em.com/?p=3141#comment-10719 Amen! Communication is the key. It's more than a cliche slogan; it's the only thing that really works. Amen! Communication is the key. It’s more than a cliche slogan; it’s the only thing that really works.

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