What is a Sex Blogger?
Somehow, I am always grouped as a sex blogger…but as many of you have probably noticed, I honestly don’t blog about sex that much. I mean, yes, I do talk about toys sometimes, or how sex is or isn’t affecting my relationship…but I as of the last year or so, I haven’t written/published as much erotica, I haven’t shared very much of my sex life, haven’t posted any nude pictures. There are many many many reasons for each of these decisions, but regardless, these topics are no longer part of my posting.
So am I still a sex blogger? I mean, I’m writing about queer weddings and relationship drama and letters to people throughout my life. Is sex and sexuality a part of it? Oh yes. But I feel like I’ve become more a life style blogger, perhaps a relationships blogger, I don’t even know.
Ergo, my question to you; what defines a sex blogger? Is it sex toy reviews? Is it erotic stories of past times? Is it deep conversation into gender identify and presentation? How does one know if they are or aren’t part of this whole “sex blogger” community?
And with that said…where do I fit?
-Essin’ Em
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I think the best definition of a sex blogger is one that is all encompassing. It includes people liek me, who reviews. Doctors and professionals and researchers who understand the subject and have studied or worked with people. People who post pictures, erotica or other sexual art. Folks who tell stories of their encounters and those who are sex positive activists. People who work in sex industries (toys, porn, etc). It’s amazing how many famous porn stars, directors, etc have a blog these days and how you can keep in contact with real people from retailers who blog or Tweet frequently. To exclude ANY of those people is simply erroneous. Yet, I am sure I have missed some category.
I think Adriana summed up my answer pretty well. :)