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A Gift to My Primary

As I am one of my own primary partners (I mean, I contribute a lot of time, energy and resources to myself, right?), I’ve bought myself a bouquet of flowers, and a red vase that I love.

I hate the concept that only a lover can give you flowers, chocolates, etc. I spent this weekend on my own with the kitties, delicious food, lovely flowers, and chocolate covered ginger. I miss Q, yes, but I am also responsible for treating myself well and seeing to my own happiness, which occasionally means fresh flowers in the house.

-Essin’ Em

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  1. Nimue February 7th, 2011 8:24 am

    I dont really comment much on blogs, but this entry just really struck a chord for me and I felt I just had to speak up!
    “I miss Q, yes, but I am also responsible for treating myself well and seeing to my own happiness”
    Sometimes I think that we focus too much on other people around us, especially when we are in poly relationships, and we forget how important it is to show ourselves some loving, and to spoil ourselves occasionally!
    Sounds like you had an enjoyable weekend, and I really love the concept of referring to yourself as one of your primary partners – it is very true and something I’m going to try to remember!

  2. Adriana February 21st, 2011 1:40 am

    I love that you bought yourself flowers!

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