Sexuality Happens

Who am I?

I’m Essin’ Em, your friendly neighborhood feminist, queer, Femme, horny, politically active, questioning, pondering sexologist and sex educator. Not only am I personally well-versed and involved in the world of sexuality, I have my Master’s in Human Sexuality Education from Widener University. 

This blog is full of thoughts discussions about the full spectrum of sexuality, sex toy/porn/book reviews (all reviewed by yours truly of course!), pieces of my personal life (yes, including snippets of sex stories), poignant news relating to sexuality, sex tips, video blogs and the (more than) occasional opinion piece with rants, rages, and questions about things relevant to sexuality. Oh! And amusing tidbits and awkward moments. I write what I think and feel – these opinions are representative of myself, and no one else.

I am: a college graduate, a graduate school graduate, a feminist, a daughter, a sister, queer, dyke-a-delic pansexual, open to all genders, attracted to whomever I am attracted to, a fierce femme, interested in human sexuality, owner and lover of two cats, eclectic, unique, quirky, non-monogamous, allergic to pink, a vegetarian for 16 years and counting, an insomniac, an internet addict, a non-smoker, an agnostic, a Jewish Humanist, a minister for the Universal Life Church, a friend, a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, a counselor, a kid, an adult, a woman, a female, a sexual assault survivor, someone working to prevent sexual assault, a dancer, a chocoholic, in love with reading books all the time, a crime show watcher, a Buffy lover, a chick-flick hater, a cook, a sleep lover, a lover of girly drinks and wine, someone who loves to shake it with the best of them, someone who drops it like it’s hot, a former theatre teacher, a former figure skater, a former hockey player, a roller derby (former) skater, current referee and lover, a triple knee surgery survivor, an erotic story creator, a writer, a nude model, a clothed model, someone who loves to drive naked (as well as be naked!), a community outreach coordinator, a sex columnist/sex tips writer, an ethical porn viewer, someone in the adult entertainment industry, a sex worker, a sex toy reviewer, a writer…and much much more.

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Given the FTC Regulations on Endorsements, I place this information here (although it is also fairly obvious in each post):

Most of my reviews (not all, but most) are of products sent to me by a variety of sexuality companies, in order for me to review them.  Because I receive them for free, I have to post this. However, my reviews are 100% honest; if I like it, I say it, and if I hate it, I say it. Also, if you click through many of the links on this page to stores (or the banners on the side), and choose to purchase a product, I will get a small percentage back (of what you spend), as I am acting as an affiliate of that company.  If you have any questions on this, please feel free to email me, and I’ll be happy to respond.

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