And this one is 100% Buck Angel and his awesome-sauce-ness about trans guys, and their health care.

Thank you to both of these fabulous performers for bringing attention to such an important sexuality issue. Way to go you two – thanks so much for talking about trans men with cervixes, and trans women with prostates, and all sorts of other differences that might keep people out of the doctor’s offices, when they really need check ups just as much as anyone else.

If you have good suggestions for resource lists for doctors who are LGB and especially T and Q friendly, please feel free to share!

-Essin’ Em

Like the other toys in this overarching category, it’s 100% silicone, meaning you can clean it with soap and water, or sterilize it with a 10% bleach solution, dishwashing it (top shelf, no soap), or boiling it 3-5 minutes. However, litter crevices make it a bit harder to clean than some of its counter parts. Only use water based lube please!

For the most part, I was pretty impressed with the Mantric Sysil Double-Dildo like toy, and even made you a shiny video review for you to learn a little more about it, see it in action, etc. Check it out:

Thanks again to Matt and Fascinations for the video action and toy-ness.

Click here to get your own Sysil Mantric and begin the angling action!

-Essin’ Em

This is another rocking video review from Fascinations by my awesome co-worker Matt.  Also, danke to Fun Factory for the Layaspot for trial and actual review.

I like this vibe because it’s small, easy to get a good handle on (my hands aren’t all cramped up or hurting after using it, like they are with some toys), and is a bit different looking than your average clitoral stimulation vibrator.  It fits in really well between your labia, and can be used on the clitoris, as well as anywhere on any body; nipples, lips (on your face), various parts of the vulva, under the testicles or on the shaft of a penis, etc. Since it’s not phallic shaped, nor does it plug into the wall, many people will find this less intimidating (or their partners will) than some toys. This makes it a great toy to share with your partner(s) in addition to using it on your own.

It’s made of Elastomer, which is phthalate free, making it body friendly. However, this means it is NOT sterilizable like silicone would be, so keep this for your (and your fluid bound partner), unlike some of the other vibes that you can share. Q likes this one a lot, so you know it’s good for your average clitoral stimulation lover, and I love using it on her…muahaha!

I, as we all know, am a HUGE fanatical fan of the the Hitachi Magic Wand. This vibrator (the Layaspot) doesn’t pack nearly as much power as the Hitachi…but I like my sex toys weapons grade. If you don’t need plug-into-the-wall stimulation, or perhaps are looking for buy your very first vibrator, this could be a perfect match for you (and it comes in lots of colors).  I give it 3 stars for me, but Q definitely gives it at least 4 stars.

 Click here to get a Layaspot! Want more info? Watch my video review of the Layaspot above!

-Essin’ Em

Thanks again to Matt, my fabulous media dude who took and cut the video.

I love love love this Spareparts Joque harness. It’s a two-strap, super comfy harness for fucktastic fucking.  Because of the design, it’s great for people of all genders (including those born with a cock), and fits regular dildos as well as double ended dildos.  Brilliant? Yes.  I’ve had one for years, and now we have a second one, because it really is that good.  I can’t wait to check out the other products coming down the Spareparts Pipeline.

Watch the sex toy video review of the Joque for the rest of my thoughts…plus I try it on to show it off, and wind up looking a little pervy.  And who doesn’t love someone looking accidentally pervy? I know I do!

Want one two? Click here to get a black one (also on the site in pink!) — choose A for the smaller and B for the larger!

-Essin’ Em

Good Vibrations was kind enough to send a copy of one of Courtney Trouble’s films to review — Seven Minutes in Heaven: Coming Out.

Basically, think queer reality porn, similar to Tristan Taormino’s Chemistry, where a bunch of queer people are put together in a room, and get to choose who to have sex with, and what type of sex to have. And then the cameras record it. Poof.

Some of my favorite performers are in this, including Tina Horn, Carson, and Puck Goodfellow, and a bevy of newcomers I enjoyed, like Sophia St. James and Sarah Lee Sinful.

The concept, I absolutely love.  They play games like Seven Minutes in Heaven, Truth or Dare, and Spin the Bottle.  I love how it reminds me of a pervy high school party that ends with all sorts of hot raunchy play.

The sex? It’s good.  I like some scenes more than others (Carson and Puck brought a lot of awesome fuckery to their scenes, and Tina Horn spanks an ass like no one else), but others I found to be a bit to slow for me.  I like more “balls to the wall” fucking, and less of the romance (with the exception of real life couples, where I find the kissing to be incredibly hot). However, I know a lot of people who really like more of the interactive parts of porn, and I think this would actually be a great movie for people wanting to try a newer type of the “girl on girl” genre (actually, a few of the stars had never had sex with a woman/queer sex before this shoot, so it’s actually kind of really cool to get to see their first time trying news things).

While much queer porn is geared towards a specifically queer audience, I feel that this particular film would be great for people of all identities. It’s hot dyke porn, but has some similarities with the more mainstream girl-on-girl that a feel many a straight guy would enjoy watching it as much as a hetero couple, or a gaggle of queers. It really appeals to a wider variety of audiences, and I love that about this film.  I’d recommend this to most people, and right now, it’s on sale, so grab this chance to get even more affordable awesome sex positive porn before the opportunity passes you by!

Click here to get your very own copy of Seven Minutes in Heaven.

-Essin’ Em

Thanks to Fascinations for a) giving me the balls to review, and b) for doing such freaking fantastic video work. 

Like the Smartballs? Want to know more about them? Click here to get your very own personal set of AWESOME…

• Filmmakers must be 19 years old and must submit proof of age with application (Copy of valid Drivers License and/or Passport)
• Filmmakers must not have won a previous FPA award
• Filmmakers must not currently have a distribution deal.
• Filmmakers must submit a written personal statement out lining their current and/or proposed creative project(s). Personal statements must illuminate the ways in which the proposed work will contribute to feminist porn as a genre.  We want to know what you are planning on doing, how you plan to do it and why you think it’s sexy!
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• All applicants will be notified by e-mail when material is received by Good For Her and winners will not be announced to the public until the Awards ceremony on April 9^th, 2010. Should the winner of the EFA be unable to attend the awards, Good For Her reserves the right to request a video acceptance speech prior to the event, to be submitted by winner no later than February 15, 2010.
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The Fifth Annual Good For Her Feminist Porn Awards will be held on April 8th and 9th in Toronto Canada.

What better to do in honor of having a porn-tastic weekend than review some porn right here on Sexuality Happens.

I’ve been watching and enjoying Trannywood Pictures for quite some time – here you can see my review of Couch Surfers (the first).

It may have taken two years for them to have come out with a new DVD, but it’s worth it. Granted, I was a little heartbroken that my favorite guy, Ian Foxe, didn’t make a return, but heartbreaker Dex Hardlove and the adorable Lube Boy, Ian Sparks and much of the gang are all back in action, plus some new faces.

This gay porn with a mix of trans guys and cis guys is the only thing like it on the market, and it’s no wonder it is so popular. There isn’t much of a plot, but nor does there need to be – it’s a bunch of hot guys (including some bears – oh my!) getting in on all over the place at the Eros Center for Safe Sex.

Speaking of which, I always love that in their movies, Trannywood chooses to discuss and use safer sex.  In this one, there is a conversation between a set of partners about using barriers, and they choose not to. I’m going to assume that they are in a real life, fluid bonded relationship, and I really appreciated seeing that dialogue.  I also loved that overall, there was lots of use of condoms, dams (for analingus), gloves, etc. Oh yeah – the DVD also includes a handout on why fuck a transguy (and the other side for a cis guy) Politics in my porn; I LOVE it.

The sex scenes were hot, and one boggled my mind.  Picture two cis guys going at it, using neither of their bio cocks to fuck (until one gets a blow job at the end). It’s things like that which make me love Trannywood in the first place. I like to think a little while I jerk off, but that’s just how I roll.

While I still think that Couch Surfers (the first) was my favorite, what with Hardlove’s double fising scene (which I got to replicate in a vaginal fisting class I taught, fulfilling that fantasy), I definitely enjoyed CS2 – great quality of film production, hot cock sucking, rimming and fucking, and a fun musical score.  Whether you like gay male porn, or love seeing FTMs in actions, I think this is definitely worth a shot. Don’t forget, V-day is coming up…order one for your sweetie.

You can get your own copy of Couch Surfers 2 at Smitten Kitten by clicking here!

-Essin’ Em

So please enjoy the reasons why dominants can’t play a simple game of cards together.

Thanks Mollena!

-Essin’ Em