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		<title>Back in Colorado</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Holy Guacamole has life been crazy lately! My partner Q and I moved back to Colorado, a few months earlier than originally planned due to Q&#8217;s new job, and it is fucking fantabulous&#8230;at least the six days I was able to spend there before I headed out of Providence, RI to speak at the Center [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Ridiculousness of the Love Industry</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Now that Valentine&#8217;s Day has come and gone, and that I&#8217;m back in the scheme of things (which includes planning for our wedding/celebration of love this October), I have to say that I&#8217;m sick and tired of the Love Industry. What, pray tell, is the Love Industry? It is the capitalism in our society has [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/02/the-ridiculousness-of-the-love-industry/</link>
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		<title>A Gift to My Primary</title>
		<description><![CDATA[As I am one of my own primary partners (I mean, I contribute a lot of time, energy and resources to myself, right?), I&#8217;ve bought myself a bouquet of flowers, and a red vase that I love. I hate the concept that only a lover can give you flowers, chocolates, etc. I spent this weekend [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/02/a-gift-to-my-primary/</link>
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		<title>Day 19: Someone That Pesters Your Mind</title>
		<description><![CDATA[This is day 19 in my “30 Days of Letters” endeavor. It is supposed to be written to someone who &#8220;pesters my mind,&#8221; either in a good way or a bad way. I assume they don&#8217;t mean music that gets stuck in it. Dear Conservative Right Wing of America (and the Tea Party) - I [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/02/day-19-someone-that-pesters-your-mind/</link>
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		<title>When Work Is Emotional</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I love my job. A lot. There are some days I like it less. It is often entirely stressful, it can be frustrating, and working in the field of sex education often leads to me being questioned as an educator, told I&#8217;m not enough not a real educator, etc. However, some days are just wonderful [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/02/when-work-is-emotional/</link>
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		<title>Still Alive!</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey Folks - I&#8217;ve been in Denver the last week or so, very busy (teaching four classes and co-hosting a kinky girls sleepover within four days!), but I am still alive, and will be writing more soon. Thanks for your patience, and I promise, in the worlds of Arnold, I&#8217;ll Be Back! -Essin&#8217; Em]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/01/still-alive/</link>
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		<title>Map of Tasmania: Thoughts on Pubic Positivity</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I like Amanda Palmer quite often. I&#8217;m still out on how I feel about her Evelyn Evelyn project, which deals with a faux discovered set of coinjoined twins (hence my issue with the project). However, usually, I think she&#8217;s pretty rad. Recently, I discovered this video by AFP (Amanda Fucking Palmer) which is about pubic [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/01/map-of-tasmania-thoughts-on-pubic-positivity/</link>
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		<title>Being Emotional</title>
		<description><![CDATA[One of the most hurtful things F told me when we were together was that I was &#8220;always in my head, and never in my heart.&#8221; She&#8217;d follow this with ending a conversation, having sex with someone else against the rules of our relationship, or a torrent of judgemental things about me. That was her [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/01/being-emotional/</link>
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		<title>Sex Game Review: Dirty Minds</title>
		<description><![CDATA[So, Q and I like to play games. I know the kind you&#8217;re thinking, but we also really enjoy playing good ol&#8217; board games like Scrabble, and fun more new fangled games like Apples to Apples. Ergo, when a certain sex toy website offered to let me review Dirty Minds, I jumped at the chance. [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/01/sex-game-review-dirty-minds/</link>
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		<title>Day 18: The Person I Wish I Could Be</title>
		<description><![CDATA[This is day 18 in my “30 Days of Letters” endeavor. It is supposed to be written to &#8220;The Person I Wish I Could Be.&#8221; This is a hard one, because I am who I am, and am pretty ok with that for the most part, and think it is futile to wish you were [...]]]></description>
		<link>http://essin-em.com/2011/01/day-18-the-person-i-wish-i-could-be/</link>
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