Links to Wishlists
Lots of people are participating in the Holiday Wishlist activity. Please take a moment to check out these lists, and see if YOU can grant someone’s holiday wish or wishes. At the very least, it’s fun to see what people want…and at the most, you can really make someone’s holiday season with something you have just lying around.
My list is here: http://essin-em.com/2010/11/holiday-givinggetting-wishlist-2010/
True Pleasures’ List is Here: http://truepleasures.blogspot.com/2010/11/holiday-givinggetting-wishlist-2010.html
Dangerous Lilly’s List is Here: http://dangerouslilly.com/2010/11/holiday-blogger-givinggetting-wishlist/
Dusk in Chains’ List is Here: http://duskinchains.wordpress.com/2010/11/17/holiday-wishlist-2010
Mistress Kay’s List is Here: http://kinky-world.net/?p=4024
Julietta’s List is Here: http://juliettia.wordpress.com/2010/11/21/holiday-wishlist/
Screaming Violet’s List is Here: http://www.screaming-violet.com/2010/11/gift-giving-holiday-wishlists/
The Blogging Slave’s List is Here: http://thebloggingslave.com/?p=2200
Lucid Obsession’s List is Here: http://lucidobsession.wordpress.com/2010/11/23/holiday-blogger-wishlist/
Do you have a wishlist? Comment with the link and I’ll put it up here! Everyone can use a little extra sharing/extra love during this time of year.
-Essin’ Em
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E-Lust #21
Photo courtesy of Evocative Abyss
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #22? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
Important e[lust] update: e[lust] will be going on hiatus for the holidays. The editions for November and December would both occur around the holidays and I know I’ll be short on both submissions and judges as well as personal time. e[lust] #22 will return in January, with ample advance warning, so please make sure you’re subscribed for updates!
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
D/s Without the D/s? – This is one of those situations in a real time D/s relationship where much of the “fun” aspects of the D/s needs to be stuffed in the closet for a bit. And for us, it’s not a great time to be either a masochist or a sadist. We can deal with that.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Yes, Jelly Sex Toys Can be Dangerous – Even if a jelly rubber toy says “phthalate-free”, it still can contain toxic chemicals that can cause skin reactions in some people. These toys are still non-porous and can harbor dirt and bacteria because they cannot be sanitized.
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Unfortunately, this edition has no Top Three picks as I didn’t have enough volunteer judges. If you’d like to volunteer to help, visit this page to find out more info and ensure that the Top Three picks continue.
See also: Pleasurists #101 and #100 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
A Modest Proposal: Should Ginger & Cooper Fuck?
Life in spanking after 30: part 2
Erotic Writing
I Still Don’t Know How You Taste
New Erotic Story For The Holidays – Tinsel Temptation
Kink & Fetish
A space to hate and rage and be angry (photo story)
Does liking Helmut Newton equal a fetish?
The Sacred Swinger Holiday: Halloween!
the most amazing night with HIM
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
All Roads Lead to Acceptance… I hope!
Dear boyfriend, I love you. And your cock.
Having Great Goddamned Expectations
If You Google it, I will Answer #9
I Don’t Know If I’ve Ever Been Really Loved By a Hand That’s Touched Me
No commentsE-Lust #20
Photo courtesy of Dangerous Lilly
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #21? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
On Making Sex Last: Cheerleading & Open Relationships - as long as the possession stuff can be fun and consensual, and not interfering with each other’s sovereignty, I think the two—cheerleading and possession—aren’t necessarily mutually exclusive.
Owned – I had almost forgotten that while here, with him, I was HIS plaything. I was OWNED by him. We had discussed this. I knew the rules. I must not forget again.
The sheer indecency of what we are doing – Is he looking for what I’m looking for? Surely so—all men want that, don’t they? A flaming succubus that comes only in the dark to bring unworldly pleasures and leave behind strange lingering dreams that spice their dutiful daytime lives.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
Stop Hating on Campus Sex Education – Clearly, there is a need for this education, because if it doesn’t come from sexuality educators, it comes from word of mouth (which can often provide incorrect information), or from the internet, or from trial and error.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
See also: Pleasurists #96 and #97 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Kink & Fetish
My adventure in subbing continues
Sisters unite for the MFW, part 2
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Cunning Linguists Are We: Cunnilingus 101
Crushing Swingerphobia by Hitting the Club
Coming Out & Invisible Illness
Sadie’s Thoughts on Cheating. Confession #507
Three’s Company, Too – Dreaming of the Multi-Relationship Home
Thoughts on bisexuality and visibility
Erotic Writing
Extraordinary Uses for Ordinary Objects
“Enslaved The Story of Jen” Chapter 13
No commentsE-Lust #19
Photo courtesy of Emmy
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #20? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
The Rules – She squirmed in her chair as if impaled there by my finger slowly pushing in and out. “But I can tell you that on our third date, I want something a lot bigger than your finger in me.”
Consensual Nonconsent - He told me he was going to do whatever he wanted to me, and he wanted me to not give consent. He wanted to take it from me. He wanted me to say no, and the less l liked something the harder it would make him.
Love and light – So I move on, not as a submissive, but as the smart mature strong woman that I know that I am. I will credit him with changing me. Changing the way I see myself.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Confessional: Annual Reminder – In the dark, in the car, in the parking lot of a somewhat posh store, he got a fantastic blowjob as uptight conservatives drove past us.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
What’s Been Eating Emmy - A yearly test is good for most, but if you find you are playing with a larger than usual number of people, go get retested. Put yourself and your future partners mind at ease.
See also: Pleasurists #92 and #93 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationship
Jane Says: Take A2M Precautions
The Big Poly Secret – The Kreplit Famine
The P-Spot is the New Male Orgasm
Erotic Writing
Dance of The Veil(Erotic Fiction Writing)
Erotica: A “Break In” – Fantasy pt1
Foreplay – An Erotic Beginning
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Interview with Athena Hollow of Geek Girls Online
Kink & Fetish
Punishment and an Ominous Chain
No commentsPleasurists #93
The Goddess Aphrodite by DarkAlchemyStudios
Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.
Did you miss Pleasurists #92? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #94? Be sure to read our submission guidelines and then use our submission form and submit it before Sunday August 29th at 11:59pm PDT.
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- Fetish Fantasy Ultra Cuff Set Deadline: August 31st.
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- Add Some Sizzle to Your Summer Deadline: August 31st.
- Michele’s A-Day LELO Siri Giveaway Deadline: September 6th.
- Eden Fantasys Gift Card Giveaway Deadline: September 6th.
- CBW Contest! Deadline: September 21st.
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Editor’s Pick
- njoy Fun Wand by Elodie
I already adored my new toy before I knew how the end with three bloops felt in my butt. When K used the Fun Wand in my rear (with plenty of lubricant), it was a revelation.
On to the reviews…
Vibrators
- L’Amour Tripler Dual Stimulation by Mistress Kay
- L’Amour Tripler Dual Stimulation by Jessie Beth
- Fun Factory Sinfflut Benjamin Bond by Rayne
- Tuyo by Marilyn
- Rhythm “O” Triple Kiss by Isabel0329
- Rhythm “O” Triple Kiss by Jane Blow
- Rechargeable Power Wand by Dr. Ruthie
- We-Vibe II by Juliettia
- We-Vibe II by Kate
- Blue Venus by Bitchin’ Babe
- Black Diamond by buzzvibe
- LELO Siri by Alan & Michele
- Zen Calm Massager by Jessie Beth
- Wand Vibrator Comparison by Dr. Ruthie
- Calypso 2 by Lucy Lemonade
- Reflections Bliss Nirvana by Vanilla Kinks
- The C-Spot by Alan & Michele
- Chippendales Diva by Pretty Power Tools
- Evolved Croupier by Pretty Power Tools
Dildos
- Crystal Delights Epiphany Baton by Isabel0329
- njoy Fun Wand by Elodie
- Tentacle Jr. by True Pleasure
- Vixen Creations Spur by Elodie
- Jollies Jack by Pretty Power Tools
Anal Toys
- Crystal Delights Plug by Scarlet Lotus St. Syr
- LELO Bob by Dr. Ruthie
- Tantus Ripple by Vanilla Kinks
- Silicone Explorers by Kynky Kytty
- Fun Factory Flexi Felix by Red Vinyl Kitty
Toys for Cocks
- Tenga Flip Hole by Cooper
- Blossom Sleeve by Red Vinyl Kitty
- Studded Extender Sleeve by Pretty Power Tools
Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.
- Durex Play Utopia by Lucid Obsession
- Earthly Body Waterslide by HotMoviesForHer Sex Toy Crew
- BabeLicious by Vanilla Kinks
- BabeLube by Saraid
- Babeland Naked Organic by Dr. Ruthie
- Pink Unity by Kynky Kytty
- System JO Wild Clitoral Stimulation Gel by Femenina Deliciosa
BDSM/Fetish
- Rachel’s Play Pak by Jessie Beth
- Pink Plush Cuffs by Kit O’Connell
- Mini Cat-O-Nine Tails by Mistress Kay
- Fetish Fantasy Series Bamboo Beater by Lucy Lemonade
- Wartenberg Pinwheel by buzzvibe
- Pinwheel by Mystress Lady Evyl
- Spank Ties by Mistress Kay
- Under the Bed Restraints by Missy
Adult Books/Games
- A Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn by Alan & Michele
- Pleasure Bound by Mistress Kay
- Secrets of Prostate Massage by Joanna Cake
- Sexually Dominant Woman by Mistress Kay
- Fast Girls by Mistress Kay
- Fairy Tale Lust by Alan & Michele
- Sex Toys 101 by Alan & Michele
Adult DVDs & Porn
- Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men by Mistress Kay
- Desperate Husbands by Chops McGruff
- Ultimate Surrender #15 by J.D. Bauchery
- A+ by FrzKey
- Justine Joli LOST by J.D. Bauchery
- Couch Surfers 2 – Trans Men in Action by The Porn Librarian
- Speakeasy by Jessie Beth
- Inmu Vol. 1 & 2 by FrzKey
- Feeling It… Not Faking It by Jessie Beth
Storage
Miscellaneous
- Vibrating Velvet Corsette Harness by Essin’ Em
- Celtic Wreath Nipple Jewelry by Isabel0329
- Good Vibrations Soft Pack by Mistress Kay
- Trojan Fire & Ice Condoms by Lucid Obsession
- Spareparts Theo Harness by Pretty Power Tools
E-Lust #11
HNT Courtesy of Barefoot Dreamer – Photo by Jon H.
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #19? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Off Limits for 30 Days – “You don’t listen very well,” I heard her hiss. “That’s off limits, damn you.” And there was a crack and fiery agony clawed into my back.
The Joy of Sucking Cock – I wonder at times if that is why I am such a “good little cocksucker” as W calls me. When I am deeply into it, I almost enter this place where I am both the sucker and suckee, and it is as though it is MY cock being sucked on.
This intensity gets me riled when I am tied up (photo story) – James picked up that evil strap again. I watched helplessly as he positioned himself to use it on my pussy… Ever so lightly he started. Flick, flick, flick.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Ask Lilly: How do I know if a sex toy has phthalates in it? – The studies going around are saying that phthalate exposure can damage all sorts of organs, and can possibly cause cancer. There are a lot of harmful things in our world these days that we can’t avoid – so when we CAN avoid something like toxins in our sex toys, we should.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
Portal. Confession #493 – It truly is a spiritual give and take, these sexual relationships I form. I can cross the threshold and see however much of someone that I choose to see, with whomever it is that I am involved with.
See also: Pleasurists #88 and #89 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Defying Gravity with Carrie Moon
Is “The Smoking Jacket” a Smoking Gun?
That’s discrimination! -or- Two Words I’m Sick of Hearing
Very Deserved Wrath- Not So New Problems
Kink & Fetish
10 Things I Love About My Slave
THIS is what happens to naughty little redheaded sluts…
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
A Declaration of Independence — From the eXes
Bi The Way – Male Bisexuality and Swinging
Transtastic: On Coming Out as a Political Act
Why Won’t Anyone Respond? — Help for Your Swinger Inbox
Erotic Writing
Get Down, Dirty & Get The Hell Out
No commentsE-Lust #15
Photo courtesy of Sexy Tiger X
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #16? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Evolution – Open Marriage, Swinging, & Polyamory – Do we REALLY believe that there is one love for us? Do we really believe there’s one cock or pussy to fuck for the rest of our life?
Sweet To Taste – “I’m dinner tonight,” she breathes. “So don’t let me get cold before you start feasting.”
Having a boyfriend makes me feel fat - I know my worth as a person isn’t devalued by my weight – but I can’t get past the notion that my worth as a partner is.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Fucked by a Stranger – For as long as I can remember, I’ve had this bizarre, twisted fantasy. The roads leading to it were different, but the end result the same: a stranger fucking a very willing me in my bed in the dead of night.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
At Her Mercy – “You have been such a good boy today. Where do you want me to put your cock next?” she said with a wink.
See also: Pleasurists #78 and #79 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Erotic Writing
A Taste of Honey
A Collaborative Fantasy
Dirty in all the Right Places
Fuck my face
I miss your cock
I Didn’t Think I Was Ready…
In a nightclub
Just can’t get enough
Let’s Not Waste That Morning Wood
Morning Lust
Nothing Personal, prologue, part one
Possess Me
Stowaway Dildo. Confession #477
The Black Sheets
The Sitter
Waking Up
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
EdenFantasys: A pattern of deception
HIV, Lube Quality, and Anal Sex: Scare Tactics at the LA Times
I Bet Nick Cage Won’t Eat A Preying Mantis
Interview with Scott Owens of EroticBPM
Reaching a Goal
Kink & Fetish
Another Night of Debauchery
Batteries with a Hook
Chastity and the ensuing Punishment
Differences in Submission
I can feel him punch-fucking me
Patient Griselda
Please hurt me
Please, Sir
Remembrances
Story: The Price (FM/M)
Summoned
The Submissive & My Paddle
Visceral and cerebral
Whippings at the Royal Palace
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Answers with an Agenda 3- Dental Dams
Acceptance
Getting Started – Their Profile
How Swinging Gave Me Confidence
My View on Monogamy
Roxy’s April Visit: Collaring My girl, the Ceremony
Sometimes Simplicity
The Sad Seal Lady & Other Precautionary Tales
The 4 of Swords
Queer Bodies Are…
A fabulous reader of mine turned me unto this project, and I think it’s amazing. Similar to the concept of Queer Eye Candy, whose goal was to present visible queer people to the world, this project is reclaiming and celebrating queer bodies as what they are.
This whole project is done by a undergrad student named James, who is running this project to collect pictures of queer bodies, however they may be; butch, femme, boi, grrl, different abilities, different sizes, different gender presentations, etc. Here is a little info from the queer bodies project page about the project:
Queer communities counter, reject, and reinvent ideas of family, home, love and beauty. We try to make spaces for ourselves: for bodies and desires and lives other than those we were taught. Our bodies become our stories of assimilation and resistance and redemption and gender and love. They bear the scars and stretch marks and laugh lines of lives in progress, and I feel such love and pride for each of us, these queer bodies, these people who are so marked.
I want to document the variation and ferocity of queer experience. I don’t want to situate queers in opposition to straight people. This isn’t about them. We do not need to justify our existence. We are people, and that is enough. I want to paint people who are making and working and loving and becoming whole, happy, and healthy. I chose portraits because I know that there is no one person or image that shows the whole of queer experience, it is different for each person. There are only small snippets, pieces of the greater picture, that can be found in each individual queer life.
I’m collecting images of queer people to paint so that I can document some part of queer experience.
I think this is a brilliant idea, and I highly encourage everyone who is willing, to partcipate and bring more visibility to queer bodies.
-Essin’ Em
Here is my queer body…Photo by Michael Barone
E-Lust #14
photo courtesy of Lila
Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #14? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Answers with an Agenda 1- Fisting – Once you’ve gotten started using two fingers for a bit, then it is time to build until four fingers are sliding in and out of the person, and you are on your way.
Gagged – I think it’s got to be a combination… fingers sliding into your cunt, a merciless tease of your clit, and yes, it’s going to have to be, lining my cock up with your ass.
Mine – I feel you stir beneath me as I create a rhythm, your breathing changing growing more shallow as you slip from sleep into arousal. My eyes lift to yours as you smile and try to move your arms and then freeze.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Puppet Master – When I was right next to them and they still did not notice, I put my lips to his ear (loud music, you know) and whispered “Touch her boobs, I bet she’d like that” and I backed up a foot.
~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~
Shaping Some Limits - “If you ever did that to me, I promise you would never see me again”.Those words were spoken to me this past weekend by my pet during one of our overnight dates. The subject was face slapping.
See also: Pleasurists #77 for all your sex toy review needs.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Kink & Fetish
One Couple’s Journey into Kink, part 2
Please hurt me unbearably, you fucking fucker!
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
How Fear can Lead to Understanding and Trust
Tyler and Holly Give Swing Clubs Another Chance
The Virgin in the Family/Do Not Enter
Erotic Writing
All Dressed Up – The Party ….part 2
Not Tonight Dear, I’ve Got A Headache (Part 2)
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Eden Fantasys Newbie Help Guide
Workshops and More at the ALCC
No commentsEye Candy #5
The hot queer eye candy this week is none other than the oh so sexy and totally fierce femme Stacy Staxx on one of my favorite kink sites; WaterBondage. You can also find her in a really hot scene with August on CrashPadSeries.com with some hot wax and lots of fun. Without further ado, enjoy!
Click here to see more of Stacy on WaterBondage.com!
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